These tips for teaching turn taking skills are for children with autism and/or hyperlexia, but they are a great example of being clear about what you are teaching. Remember to start with short turns and make them longer as your child grows and they have more attention.
Use an object to show whose turn it is
Find something in your house to use that can be passed from person to person. Think of this as the “talking stick” exercise used in adult group discussions. Make it fun and silly – maybe tell a joke, sing a song in parts, or come up with silly rhyming words
Use “my turn” and “your turn” as you talk or play together
Instead of a talking stick, this is a great chance for listening and responding or taking turns with a toy – you could also use printable turn cards to pass or for your child to give to you when it is time for their turn
Model turn taking
Parents need to be a role model for sharing and taking turns, so you’re not off the hook. We know that children watch adults!
Play games
Games (especially board games) are a natural way to share the idea of turn taking, so break out the Candyland and Chutes & Ladders
Read or tell a story about taking turns
We will share a booklist next week to help you out ☺
Use a fidget between turns
If your child finds it hard to wait, give them something to do while they wait for their turn.
Adapted from And Next Come L post How to Teach Turn Taking Skills to Kids
